A Man s Guide To Women s Lingerie

Sunday, 9 August 2009

As men and women all over the world share their warmth on these cold wintry nights
a celebration of love looms on the horizon
and with it
the promise of the coming spring
The rituals of Valentines Day so often consists of a box of chocolates and some roses
followed by dinner
and an expectation of some better than the usual sex. Ever wonder if it could get any better than this? It can.

Here’s a wake up call to men of all ages. It’s up to you to make it better. Take hold of the reins and do the unexpected. Surprise your baby and she’ll surprise you beyond your wildest expectations. Give her some sexy lingerie for
then sit back and enjoy the show! Lingerie – the gift that keeps on giving!

Women love to look pretty
men love to look at pretty women
so what’s the problem here? Granted
most men’s ultimate goal is to get their women naked
but throw into the equation a tightly laced bustier with a skirted garter and fishnet hose – heck
getting there is half the fun!

Lingerie comes in many styles and materials and is conveniently available online (for those of us who don’t particularly want to make a trip to Victoria’s Secret). Online lingerie retailers ship their products discreetly in plain boxes so as not to spill the beans to the neighbors
your wife
or the person you want to surprise. And there’s good news for those men who like their women big: plenty of stores out there that offer plus size lingerie
up to 3X!

With all this in mind
men need to become educated consumers in a world of lingerie that is primarily dominated by women. It is for this reason that I have taken it upon myself to write this informative Man’s Guide to Women’s Lingerie”.

Corsets and Bustiers: a history of lingerie

As recently as the 1830's
the corset was thought of as a medical necessity. Being that women were the weaker sex
they needed the support of a laced corset to hold them up for any length of time. Girls from the ages of two or three began their lives being strapped in daily to a tight laced corset. Unfortunately for the women
by the time they reached their prime they were unable to stand or sit upright for very long without getting the "vapors".

Early corsets were made from canvas
(plenty of that around from all the sailing ships) and had laces all the way up the back pulled so tight as to make it darn near impossible to draw a deep breath. Needless to say
the prevailing fashion (or fetish) of the day was a very small waist line.

Today’s modern corset is made from softer and suppler materials such as silk
satin and lace
(as well as leather) to name a few. It is designed to accentuate a woman’s curves
not to alter them. For many men there is nothing more arousing than the sight of a willing accomplice all dressed up in a tight
laced up leather corset
and it’s a turn on for the women too!

Out of the corset evolved the bustier
predecessor to the modern day brazier. It seems that men even back then liked to see their women’s breasts pushed up and squeezed together!
A bustier is basically an underwire bra that extends down to the waistline. Traditionally with a lace up front
today’s bustiers can fasten in a variety of ways. Zippers
snaps
hooks and eyes
(remember the trouble we had undoing bras in high school?) even Velcro seems to get the job done. Keep in mind the fastenings when considering a lingerie purchase. The removal of these garments can at times try a man’s patience. Remember the times when you’ve been asked to take it easy and slow down? Do it now and savor the moment!

Another popular lingerie design is what’s known as the Teddy. Similar to a corset in design
a teddy is a one piece suit that starts out as a bustier
extends down between the legs as a thong
and ends up fastening to the back of the bodice. Simple by definition
teddies can take the form of something resembling a harness
to a full fledged zippered
hooked
and laced corset with an attached thong. Many teddies come with garter belts attached
adding endless possibilities for some naughty
bad little girls’ psychopathic imagination to run wild with.

For the truly innocent
perpetual virgin nice girl look
consider the Baby Doll. A short mini hanging to the waist that can be worn with or without the matching bra and panties
the baby doll is usually made from some sheer
lightweight material with varying degrees of transparency. The baby doll lingerie style gets its name from; well…you figure it out!

Today
ladies lingerie is easier than ever to shop for. Do a search on lingerie and you’ll find a multitude of reputable lingerie dealers and merchants. Browse through their catalogs and you’re sure to find something that stirs your
um… interest.

Sizing is an issue that must be dealt with
and a good lingerie site will have size charts easily accessible. While lingerie is generally pretty forgiving size wise
(a lot of lingerie is marked one size fits all) you should know at a minimum if she’s a small
medium or large. If you see sizes like 32
38
etc….why don’t you just ask her her size!

When shopping for lingerie
keep in mind that a gift of lingerie should stimulate both you and your partner. Get her something that you like
and don’t be afraid to push the envelope! Lingerie encompasses a huge variety of styles; from a couple of pasties and a thong to an elegant satin and lace gown with matching bra and panties!

Do not overlook the possibilities of Leather Lingerie. Leather has become mainstream and is not just for bikers and sado/masochists any more. Women love the feel of leather on their bare skin
and peeling off a tight leather teddy is a real treat!

Lingerie for your baby and you can’t lose! Give her a gift of lingerie
and you do yourself a favor! The gift that keeps on giving – all year round!

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